Wednesday, August 6, 2025

Four Mothers, One Father, Twelve Sons

                                                               Carlene Havel

Hi Everyone!

Gay N. Lewis here, and I am happy to introduce you to a fellow Texan, Carlen Havel. Carlene lives in San Antonio, and I’m in the Houston area. We’ve been friends for about fourteen years, but we’ve yet to meet face to face. We visit on the phone, email and social media. Carlene Havel writes Christian-themed romances and historical novels, often with co-author, Sharon Faucheux. Carlene has lived in Turkey, Republic of the Philippines, and numerous US states. Before becoming an author, she worked in human resources and software development.

As of this date, Carlene has eighteen active books. She and her mother, Billie Houston, co-authored four of them, and fellow author, Sharon Faucheux collaborated on five others. Carlene has been published by traditional publishers, and now she is self-published.

Let’s find out more from Carlene. Tell us how you organize your advertising. What sort of records do you keep?

Carlene: I’ve always been a fan of Microsoft Excel. My marketing workbook consists of several spreadsheets that track ad history for each book to include ad site, date, price, and the number of books sold through the campaign.  I also chart Kindle Unlimited expiration dates and miscellaneous data such as the number of pages in each book. It’s helpful to be able to see all of this information at once and to be able to sort by various factors. At the end of each month, I compile a spreadsheet containing stats for each book, number sold, pages read, amounts earned; expenditures during the month, such as advertising, copyright, isbn purchase, etc., and amounts paid to editors and a virtual assistant. These really come in handy when I do the taxes for my LLC.

Gay: You and Sharon Faucheux write together.  What happens if you disagree about a plot or a twist?

 

Carlene: Sharon and I have a very workable division of labor. I do most of the plotting, while Sharon specializes in historical research. That line gets blurry at times, but so far, we have been able to talk through any disagreement to find a solution we’re both happy with.

Gay: Both you and Sharon do a lot of research, do you both attend a lot of Bible studies?

Carlene: I love attending women’s Bible studies. I occasionally facilitate discussions, but I’m no teacher. Nor is Sharon. She’s more inclined to hole up with a stack of books and not be seen until she’s finished reading.

Gay: Have you ever tried cooking some of the dishes the people ate in the OT?

Carlene: I gave up cooking a few years ago, when my husband took over the kitchen. He does the meal planning, grocery shopping, and food preparation. My only job is cleaning up the kitchen. We eat a lot better than we ever did when I was the family chef!

Gay: Let’s talk about your book, Mother’s of a Nation. I love the title. How did you come up with it?

 

Carlene: I wish I could answer that question, but I don’t know how titles get into my mind any more than I understand where book concepts come from. Sometimes when I’m doing something unrelated to writing, an idea overtakes me. The shower is one of my favorite think tanks. It might be a title, a scene, or a line of dialogue I fall in love with. The idea just appears, and from it the rest of a book takes shape.

Gay: The story of Jacob’s wives in the Bible blows my mind. Which of the sisters did you feel the most sorry for?

Carlene: I felt some sadness for all four of the women who bore Jacob’s children. Their situation was difficult, made worse by each woman’s own human failings. We are so blessed to live in a time and place where we are valued for more than our ability to give birth.

Gay: Which sister did you like the most?

Carlene: I didn’t know this when I started writing the book, but Leah turned out to be my favorite character. She was so loyal and so dedicated to being a good mother. She never allowed Jacob’s favoritism to make her bitter. I admired how Leah soldiered on unselfishly, regardless of the circumstances.

 

Gay: Which maidservant did you like the most?

 

I felt sorry for Bilhah’s tragic life, but my heart is drawn to Zilpah. She was optimistic, kind, and always looked for the best in others.


Gay: In the book, all four women are related. Zilpah was Leah’s maidservant and Bilhah was Rachel’s maidservant. These servants were given to the ladies by their father. How did you determine all four women might have had the same father?

 

Carlene: There’s a whole body of Jewish lore, tradition, and history, known as rabbinical literature. The notion that Laban fathered the two maidservants came from those writings. We know from the Bible that a handmaiden could be the surrogate mother of children that would belong to her mistress, as Hagar was for Sarah. It may or may not be true that Bilhah and Zilpah were Rachel and Leah’s half-sisters, but it is possible. I thought the family tie added an interesting layer to the relationships among Jacob’s women. 

Gay:  All four women called Jacob “husband.” Even though the handmaidens never married Jacob.  I can’t imagine sharing my husband with another woman. Do you think it was hard for these four women?  I can’t imagine giving my husband to another woman.

Carlene: I’m right there with you, Gay. I’m not willing to share my husband with another woman! Ancient traditions were vastly different from ours. Women were viewed more as possessions than as individual human beings, which is still prevalent in some places in our “moden” world. Jesus did a great deal to elevate the status of women.

Gay: Do you think Jacob would have ever said to the women, “This is enough. Don’t offer me anymore women.”

 

Carlene: It would have been his duty to give his wives the opportunity to bear children. It does appear he carried out his assignment with enthusiasm.

Gay: I’m sure he did! Do you think Jacob loved each of the four?

Carlene: Our concept of marriage is based on love. Theirs was based on family strength and honor. I believe the New Testament admonition for a man to love his wife the way Christ loves His church was a radical idea for that time.  In the context of that difference, I believe Jacob did love the four women who gave him children, for that reason if no other.

Gay: Not counting Joseph, which son was your favorite?

 

Carlene: I like Judah’s character. He seemed to me to be more compassionate than his brothers. All of the sons were imperfect, but Judah took responsibility for his sin instead of trying to shift blame onto Tamar.

 

Gay: Genesis records the death of Rachel and Leah, but it doesn’t mention the deaths other two women, but in your book, they all die. How did you come up with their final words? I also love that Zilpah, the surviving “wife” was accepted by the family as Jacob’s companion.

Carlene: The death of each woman felt like a natural way to close out her part of the narrative. As for final words, I tried to put myself in each character’s place, thinking what she would have wanted to say.

Thanks Carlene for visiting with us. This is a wonderful new take on an old story.

Carlene plans to give someone a $10 Amazon gift certificate, so

 please leave a comment! Names are drawn for the winner.

Carlene on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlene.havel

Book: Mother's of a Nation

Carlene's email: CHAVEL@satx.rr.com

Wednesday, July 23, 2025

Meet Debut Author Erma M. Ullrey

Welcome back to the diamond mine. Today, I'm so excited to introduce you to a friend of mine whose debut novel came out last week. Her book was inspired by You've Got Mail. Keep reading to find out more about Journaled with Love.


About the author

Erma M. Ullrey is a dedicated follower of Jesus Christ and author. She worked in the medical field for over twenty-five years. After completing her B.S.H.S., she became a health educator and received international credentials as a childbirth educator and lactation consultant. She has served as a women’s Bible study leader and participates in local and online writers’ groups and book clubs.

In the past few years, Erma has won several writing awards. Her first published work was “A Snowflake's Adventure,” a children's picture book about God's love and exciting purpose for each child. Erma's latest publication is "Journaled with Love," a clean and wholesome light-hearted Rom-Com in the style of "You've Got Mail."

Enjoy Erma’s weekly Blog as well as her other writings at her website: https://www.MerryHeartInk.com. Look for the heading “Once Upon a Romance,” for interesting articles and interviews related to romance writing.


Connect with Erma: Once Upon a Romance Substack | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter/X


Suzie: Welcome to the Diamond Mine, Erma. I'm so excited to introduce you to our readers and share more about your debut. But first, let's learn a little more about you.


What is your favorite drink and/or snack when writing?


Erma: That depends on the weather and what I’m writing. If my characters drink coffee, that’s my drink of choice too. But when it’s hot, they can drink all the coffee they want – I’ll have raspberry lemonade with lots of ice, thank you! :)

Suzie: Oh, raspberry lemonade sounds refreshing (it's in the 90s and humid in North Carolina this week). What does your writing space look like? Erma: Oh dear! Once a week it’s just my keyboard and lots of craft books. The other six days, it’s an explosion of sticky notes, loose papers, pens and list pads, books, dictionaries, and a copy of what I’d written the day before. Suzie: I think that's a pretty normal picture of an author. What’s something readers might be surprised to learn about your writing process? Erma: I’m learning to write while on a walking pad (a small-scale treadmill). Because it’s a narrow piece of equipment, I’ve tripped but haven’t fallen off yet. I’m determined to master the process – no matter what! :) I love that it makes me hyper aware and slows me down so I can ponder every word even more than usual! Suzie: Slowing down is so good for us creatively (and in many other areas). Tell us a little about you—family, hobbies, day job, or whatever you’d like to share that’s not in your bio.

Erma: I love my family and am so grateful for my husband, four children, five g’kids, our dog Tucker, and four granddogs. Writing was my first love, but my parents said, ‘you can’t earn a living at that.’ In seventh grade science, I learned about cells and was hooked. After working in the medical field for 35 years, I’m finally back to my first love!

Suzie: It's never too late to do what you love. What are three books on your current tbr?


Erma:

The Paris Housekeeper by Renee Ryan

The Christmas Inn by Pamela Kelley The Italian Holiday by Nicole Sharp Suzie: Those look like some great reads. What drew you to writing romance?

Erma: Romance wasn’t on my radar, suspense was. Then, a few years ago, I had a conversation with Lenora Worth. I’ve been writing romance ever since. :) Suzie: Oh to be a fly on the wall for that conversation. Which comes first for you: the characters or the premise?

Erma: It depends. When I’m in between stories, sometimes the characters start telling me their ideas. Other times, a premise lights up like a movie in my mind. From that point on, I let the characters dictate the plot. Suzie: Would you share with us a little about your road to publication?

Erma: Oh, my. This is going to get bumpy! I’ve won 14 writing contests and always wanted to be traditionally published. After prayerfully considering my options, I chose to sign with a small traditional publisher. The date for publication didn’t work out, so I’m going to self-publish that book - Sadie’s Gift: The Christmas Cabin, a Women’s Contemporary Romance - in November 2025. In the meantime, I’m self-publishing Journaled with Love, the first in the “With Love” series on July 16, 2025. I’ve always been a do-it-yourselfer. However, there is no shortage of things to do regarding self-publishing and promoting/marketing. I find myself praying more than ever before, asking the Lord to calm my fears and anxieties. I am more grateful than ever for encouraging, supportive family and friends. :) Suzie: Sometimes those detours lead to unexpected and memorable places. Tell us more about your debut release.

Erma: Journaled With Love is a clean, 62K-word, enemies-to-lovers Rom-Com (think You’ve Got Mail).

I had so much fun writing this book. The characters had a lot to say, and the tension between them, along with their humor, kept my fingers on the keyboard.

Macie Grammerly’s mother demands she come home and work for the family business or forfeit further financial support. Macie loathes her job but not nearly as much as her overachiever boss. Focused on his career, Ryan Tiggs plans to climb to the top of a family-owned business. Then everything changes when he finds a journal left on the bus. Though he’s attracted to his coworker, the journal author’s raw honesty speaks to his soul, and he’s desperate to meet her. When the truth is revealed, will Macie and Ryan fight for the love they never saw coming or walk away from the one person who has always been there for them? Suzie: What message or feeling do you hope readers walk away with after reading your book?

Erma: All things are possible. God has a way of working everything out for our good and His glory. We sometimes pray for Him to change our situation or circumstance. In reality, He’s using that circumstance or situation to change us! We just need to trust Him – even when we don’t see or understand what He’s doing. :) Suzie: Amen and amen! What are you currently working on?

Erma: I’m working on the next book in the With Love series, Recipes with Love (to be published February 5, 2026, Lord willing). I’ve got another romcom, Lifted, that I find myself distracted by. The characters are hysterical, and they draw me into their New York setting in a hot minute. Suzie: Sounds like you've got a lot on your plate. How can we pray for you?

Erma: Pray that the work I do glorifies the Lord and blesses each reader. Every word that I perseverate over has no worth if not a one shines with Jesus’ love. Thank you for your prayers!


Suzie: Absolutely. All authors need prayer and encouragement. Thank you again for taking time to share with us today. And congratulations on your debut!



About the Book


Lost words, found love - a misplaced journal may spark a happily-ever-after in this You’ve Got Mail-style Rom-Com




Macie Grammerly’s mother delivers an ultimatum—come home and work for the family business or forfeit further financial support. Booted from her privileged jet-set life, Macie leaves sun-soaked Hawaii for Idaho. On her unglamorous bus ride to and from work, she pours her heart into her journal, writing about her dreams and the love she longs for.

Focused on his career, Ryan Tiggs’s five-year plan includes climbing to the top of a family-owned business. Then he can buy a car and move out of the garage apartment at his sister’s home. When he’s assigned the boss’s spoiled daughter as his intern, and they’re tasked with saving the floundering company, Ryan wonders if his days are numbered.

Everything changes when he finds a journal left on the bus. The anonymous writer’s vulnerability captivates him and sparks a secret email exchange that soon feels more real than anything else in his life.

As Macie and Ryan continue to work together, an undeniable attraction grows. Yet things are complicated by their individual online correspondence. When the truth is revealed, will they fight for the love they never saw coming or walk away from the one person who has always been there for them?


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